once you get to your breaking point you know it. Living in uncertainty is horrible. Knowing you will be OK regardless of the outcome is healthy thinking.
Conquering your fear is also healthy and builds character.
Giving your H the choice to come home is OK as long as you inform him there will be boundaries. Especially contact with OW.
This can't be a bluff. If you set a boundary and he breaks it, you need to enforce it.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
