She was paying the bills, but I was the one that figured how much we had to spend or how to spend. However, for the last year I wasn't really watching anything other than our account. I did not know about her hidden account til a few months before bomb was dropped.
The statements I found not that long ago shows she was using the account for partying and self goods.
Now I believe her funds have dried up, she's pulled her deposit, and now she's using her other CC. She stated "Rent", but then I find hotel charge(You have to use a CC, but the fact is it's still money not being spent wisely). I have a feeling she's treating other people and OM all the time without any regards to her own financial well being.
That's why I'm wondering if this is part of the Wayward addiction pattern. I keep hearing "don't think she wouldn't take your money or clean out your accounts"...so I've stopped that risk, but was curious as to why they do this?
