I think it's time that I box up her things and store them in my detached garage.
I'm not doing it out of spite though. Before now I probably would have just packed up her crap and put it in boxes just to piss her off or get a reaction next time she was over at the house.
I just really want all of it out of my house. I'll pack it really well, very nice and neat. Labeled and everything. I'm not angry about having to do this, I just need to start moving on.
It hurts that I have to do this, but I know it is necessary. I know a lot of people here pack up their WAS sh!t out of anger but I don't think I'm that way right now. The past 3 days of little contact with her has given me a little more clarity.
I'm just sad that I have to do it. So, I'll bring home some boxes today from work and start the process. She's trying to move forward, I should be too. She's made it very clear that she can't work on a relationship with me right now. I have to be OK with that.
This is just one more step towards trying to detach and move on. It hurts, but it's a necessary hurt.
I really hope when you start this, you don't find the sh!t I found. I started out nice and neat then after my findings just started piling everything in any space that would fit. My intentions at the start were honorable though, if that counts.
