And yes, maybe I am going all "mama bear" but S *is* one of my closest friends and I am not going to sit by and watch anybody judge him unless they know what he endures (with a smile I might add) each day.
Awww CG, thanks doll!!!
I see TH's point from someone completely detached looking in and it makes sense but there're a lot of details as CG mentioned that make things a tad more complicated. At the end of the day this is a tough position to be in as most of you guys know from your own exerpiences. However, these are the cards life's dealt us so we have to just keep on moving forward- with a smile
kat, if I took a lower paying job closer to home then because the percentage will be the same and the amount lower I hurt myself paying the bills. Of course, it would depend on how much lower...because I do spend a lot on gas and car maintenance (130miles a day). So if anything I'd want a higher paying job so I can start saving up for the rainy day. Again, if I wanted to be an a-hole to STBXW then sure I could find an odd job and tell her tough...but ultimately that will affect not only her but me and my DD. Or at least that's how I see it. Ideally she would get a higher paying job, request a lower payment from me but what are the odds? lol
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
