I'm not having that fog AG. I am still in the disbelief mode and am really having a hard time lately. Last night I was very upset with W for "doing this to me and our family." I just can't get over her.
I really wish that I didn't care and that I could move on without all this grief. Most days I am good, but then it hits me again.
I can relate to your example and am in tune with your last paragraph too, except for the fog part. Maybe it is YOUR defense mechanism to allow you to deal with the situation. Does it make it any easier?