Since you like to laugh, Sol, here is one for you...

In Nov. of 2007 (my H left in March of 2008) we went to a hockey game and I sat next to OW. LOL! Of course I had no clue at the time. And D treated her so poorly and then went on and on to me about what a slut she was and how everybody at work hated her.

It should have been a red flag to me (duh, stupid me, lol!) because in the decade plus I have known D he NEVER spoke ill of people he worked with.