I can imagine how upset you must be re: explosive meeting last week. I would be too but at least your mom called you and perhaps from that angle you can call your little sis? I know it feels unfair but sometimes it's not worth the stress and fighthing when at a deeper level you obviously care about eachother. I'm sure you guys will work it out and concentrate on resolving the issue at hand.
Sorry to hear about K's best friend's dad. I hope they find him and I hope he's OK.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again