I do wonder what would happen if you took a lower paying job closer to home. Would you be exactly where you are now? I mean of course she will get a lower amount but proportions would stay the same I am guessing. If she isn't making it now, she won't make it with less and would force her to get a better job. You at least wouldn't be spending all of this time commuting just to pay her.

Ok just a thought. Call me crazy!

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