This was all so strange in that this was the first time I have seen any hesitation in her and the discussion was regarding her moving out. She is still going and that was the whole conversation but something was odd about her body language.
Letting go DOES throw the WAS for a loop. Almost every time. They are expecting you to totally disagree to them wanting out and when you don't bite, it makes them go, What? It's kind of funny in a way.
You sound well (as far as "accepting" goes). What are you doing in the interim as far as GAL?