I think you are doing a good job of accepting it already, buffet. You went through the D, you have stated to your ex what you will/won't tolerate and the rest is history.
It would be worse if you were still waiting, hoping for her to come back and letting her walk all over you. That is not accepting. That is standing in the middle of a damn hurricane coming straight at you and doing nothing but smiling at it like it's not real. You have accepted what's happened. To me, she is the one who hasn't which explains all of her waffling and inability to admit she is with the OM. It's actually really sad, in a way. It's pathetic.
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
Fake it till you make it only works in the short term.
Oh, I love this, Bobbi. Needs to go in the DB quotes thread.
