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Don't want it. She keeps bringing it up


She brings it up, all you have to say is "I'm not ready to talk about us. I have a lot of thinking to do considering...".

End of converstation. You can say, "I am going to go now" if she doesn't respect that boundary.

Set your boundaries and enforce them. How hard is that?

You don't want to talk about it? Don't. Warn her, and then leave or say goodbye and hang up if she persists.

Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/20/10 05:15 PM.
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