I completely understand your anxiety. It's something that I have to prepare myself for. Like you, after my W dropped the bomb, her mind was made up. She would occasionally waiver but was never wholeheartedly trying to save the M.
I hate the fact that it is in the hands of a lawyer and judge. We have to accept that it is also in the hands of God and he will not abandon us.
Take care of yourself. It helps to know you're not alone. Too many of us are in the same boat. I can't stand who my W has become. I tried just like most of us have.
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I really think that saving a marriage is an honorable undertaking.
It is, and we can be proud of ourselves for trying.
