Actually I think he is just shifting the blame from his own bad habits. For one he said that I didnt appear to care about appearance of me or our home. THAT is not true at all, but he said that was the best he could come up with. I do care about my appearance and our home. Im constantly up doing something in the house and I always care about how I look. He just wants me to dress up like IM going out on the town even when Im at home or work. He also said that sex had changed too. Well, when he moved home he took on a second job doing a paper route that starts at 4 am every morning, I decided to help him out and do it every other night for him. Im exhausted at nights after running a business, taking care of the house,kids and him! I also told him that it was a big change having him back there. Also he has changed in that as well. Its like just sex with him. Nothing more than that. He quit holding me and just wanting to cuddle. Im sorry, I have told him time after time my needs and its like Im not being heard. After a while, having sex with him was just becoming a chore. So, with that I agree that I changed...but so did he. Unlike the appearance of the house...he has no desire to do anything around there...he quit caring about it some time ago.
I agree...staying out till 3 am in the morning is not what a married man with kids should be doing every Friday night....Maybe once in a while to go spend time with your friends is ok...but not all the time. Besides, it hurts that he doesnt ask me if I would like to get a sitter and go with him once in a while.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
