So we have been living in the same house but living completely separate lives for about 3 months. She has barely spoken to me for 2 months and just seems to be a very angry person. I continued with normal politeness of saying "good morning", good night etc. Sometimes she would grunt something back sometimes not.
She was talking about selling the house and blaming me for holding it up (ie organizing it ) but did not push the issue so I got fed up last week and called a real-estate agent. I then emailed her with a list of dates we could meet with him to discuss. No response.
I then followed up with a second email and made an apt and said I was just informing her as she needs to be a part of the process. Again no response.
She finally spoke to me last night and said she was going to move out in the next month so we don't necessarily have to rush to sell the house. She will rent a smaller house and we can equally share the mortgage and rent and that will take the pressure off the house sale. This really surprised me as this will be much more difficult on her than me financially. It was actually a pleasant conversation.
I just responded it was for the best and when we are here we should discuss a separation agreement and start the process going. She then started to get a bit angry and said "did I not trust her". Just responded that it will protect BOTH of us and needs to be done. She then agreed.
This was all so strange in that this was the first time I have seen any hesitation in her and the discussion was regarding her moving out. She is still going and that was the whole conversation but something was odd about her body language.
She then left the house and wished me a good evening as I was going out too.
