I am in the same boat as you BobbiJo. I know I am going to see H and OW together at some point because we live in a pretty small city, but luckily I haven't much. I understand the pit in the stomach feeling.
Sorry about D8. It is good you talked to her and reassured her. She needs a vent for these emotions, and I am glad you let her do that.
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