Hey guys, thanks for all the support and advice.

OF, good to see you again, hope things are going well with you. You, Kerry and NM should hang out! I hear you on her continuing to ask for more and more because I've let her. Last night she texted me saying 'Please leave my toll-road pass in DD's backpack tomorrow. Thx' I'm tempted to reply 'I don't think so, you can have it after the divorce is final' - because that's probably what she would've said to me.

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The only difference will be how much she gets out of you in advance before ripping you a new one in court.


No worries, I'll bring a bottle of KY jelly grin

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Tell your L that it's time to wrap it up. The longer this goes, the worse it will be for you. Finish the D as quickly as the court will allow and at all costs. It's the only way the two of you will be able to disconnect from the situation and each other.


I'm with you- that's what I've been trying to get done lately but honestly mentally wrapping my head around the financial loss makes me want to delay the inevitable, I know it's foolish. While I don't think about it too much I feel just how antlers feels about his wife getting rewarded for all the chaos and causing damage to the family, finances, relationships...everything. I hate these divorce laws.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again