1) Ali I think he was upset about the partner, for more than one reason. When he dropped kids off yesterday, he was still fuming about it. He said, "I am so glad you are debt free and have money to spend on cows. Because I sure don't. I am flat broke." So he has got to be bitter than I am living well financially, and he isn't. I just said, "Well, guess the consequences of divorcing me must suck for you."
2) He is still trying to spend money on something, who knows what all... Yesterday after the tirade about being broke he said, "And I tried to get a loan last week for something and I couldn't because my name is on this house. Get it out of my name now." I said, "I will, I have a year to do it..." That pissed him off. BC that means I could take until February. Actually I have the paperwork, I just picked it up from my local bank. I just have to fill it out and return it.
3) As far as you Ali and K have mentioned about dating, I am getting there. Trust me, I want to be dating and having fun! Just need willing participants whom I actually find desirable.
Aviator guy and I went out once, but with his kids and mine on opposite custody schedules that is not going anywhere. We may go out again in 2 weeks, which would be almost 2 months in between our first and second date...
Then golf guy wants to get together again, but he lives 2 hrs away, so our dates will prob be one a month at best.
Speech coach guy just texted me Sat night. With school back on we have seen each other a time or two for coaches' meetings. And we have a coach retreat in 2 weeks out of town. I know he will not be "The Guy", neither will the other ones I have been chatting with. But I don't care. I just want to go out, have fun, get kissed.
