Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[gr8 day 2B alive]

MAJOR DEVELOPEMENT!!!

As you all know I went to mediation on Saturday and I did well for myself. See post above.

When W dropped kids off on Saturday before she left she asked me if she could call me b/c she needed to discuss a few things with me. hmmmm I thought. A few things? After mediation there was only one thing on the table to discuss.


Satuday Night-

I spoke to our one mutual friend Saturday night at a party.
W was up at mutual friends(MF) house a week ago for a playdate with the kids. MF said to W that you are stubborn and unhappy.
Told W you are a family person and the life style your living is not who you are.

Part of their convo:

W's father has a beach house and we would all go down a few times each summer. I hated the beach but did it for her and the kids.
W says to MF that she missed me this summer not being there and admitted I didn't like the beach.

Then MF hits her with,---You had a great guy and nows he's dating someone else.
W was speechless, thought about that statement and started to tear up. She told MF that all she needed was time!

So when MF told me all this Saturday night I had really nothing to say. I agreed with her. Told her I was so happy right now and I'm enjoying my life. BTW I did date OW this summer, but we stopped seeing each other.

Today....

Called W as promised but got her VM. Left her a message saying I am calling like I said I would.

10 minutes later MF calls me. Saying she spoke to W this morning and that if I were to have an opened mind would I be willing to lesson to W?
MF told me not to be too hard on W but not to make it easy for her either.
She told me W is really having second thoughts but is unsure what I wanted. W told MF I still love him and I find him attractive but GR8 isn't attracted to me physically.

MF told her there were other issues there that make you think that. She told W do you think he's attracted to someone who is
b!tchy and unhappy?

So now....
received text from W stating....
Sorry I missed your call, I was in the shower. Is now a good time to talk?
During our M my W apologized to me only a handful of times.

I replied give me 30 minutes and I'll call you back.

I am typing this post during that 30 min delay.

I don't know how I feel right now.
Part of me is getting emotional, I'm teary eyed as I type, b/c
ALL the hard work I have done on myself wore her down.

Part of me has accepted that my M is over and I already move on.

Wasn't sure if this day would ever come but it appears it has.

I have to call her back soon.

So much to think about.