On two ends of the world..

[KellBell0820]

I agree with Soleil, I don't think you should ignore the email, but I think that a "I don't want to be married to someone who doesn't want to be married to me" might be going to far at this moment. You don't want to lie to him, like you said, you do want to be married. I like the suggestion of saying that while you don't agree, and think the problems could be fixed if you both worked at it, you respect the decision. That could open up the gates for more conversation so that you could possibly get to the bottom of what's going on with him.