MLC, H and me continued...learning and living

[courageous wife]

Anytime punkin!

TG!!!! So happy to see you stopped by! What is a "seagoat"?


"Just remember you control everything."

Except my MLCer!!!

[goodattitudegirl]

CW,

Sorry I have been AWOL for awhile (too much birthday GAL'ing). I have been following along but not posting.

I agree with what others said about OW showing her insecurity by wanting some kind of ring. CW, you are truly a special person. Your kindness and fun-loving personality shine through in your writing even though I have never met you. It would be H's loss to lose you.

Glad you got your propane tank filled. That has to give you some sense of security. MLC is a long, long road and at times it is much easier to look at the potholes beneath your feet than to look at the beautiful scenery at the end of your journey. This evening I was thinking about what Lance asked on I think Cas' thread awhile back: "How is your situation different now than it was 1 year ago?" I realized that my XH is now very receptive to me which is in sharp contrast to the huge wall he had up 1 year ago. If you think about it for awhile, you may realize there has been more change than you realize.

(((((CW)))))))

GAG

[Truegritter]

C-dub

Seagoat=Capricorn

[courageous wife]

Seagoat=Capricorn

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Hi GAG

Good to hear from you and glad that the birthday galing lasted a looong time!!!

I do hope everyone is right about things not being as they seem! I have never been a very patient girl and am sure learning to be that way now!

I, seriously am tired of worrying about financial stuff so it did feel good to work on some of that yesterday.

Hope you all have a good weekend!

[newmama]

CW hope you aren't feeling too down. Tomorrow is another day full of possibilities. Sorry to be corny!

BTW when I read that you received $100 in the mail from your IRA, it reminded me of Monopoly- the game- where you pull a chance card. The chance cards say things like that! Maybe you will win $20 in a cake contest or whatever another card says! lol

[Mila]

Hi CW - hope you had a nice weekend

(((hugs)))

[courageous wife]

Good morning NM and Mila

Weekend was fine...busy with work and grandson's birthday party!

H spent not quite 24hrs with the kids. S14 b-day is today so he is now S15! H got him a GC and store bought cupcakes and they just hung out at OW's house.

H did not come in when he dropped off the kids. He then went to SS's to drop of grandson's gift before the party and was gone long before guests started to arrive.

Need to make a cheesecake for S15 and go get his gift!

Hope everyone has a great day!

[goodattitudegirl]

Any feedback from your son about interactions between H and OW yesterday?

GAG

[courageous wife]

Hi GAG

The advice from everyone is to NOT ask...better for the ol' PMA!

I try to not ask questions other than what they (the kids) ate, did they do anything fun etc. They did not volunteer anything extra!

[Mystik]

I don't even ask DS any of that. We have a "don't ask, don't tell" policy regarding his time with his father. I don't ask anything about it and he doesn't tell me anything about it.