option 1 Ignore the email. He should at least have a decency to call me in that matter... so ignore him until he does. But it could very easily backfire. And I'm not sure what I would gain by this anyway.
option 2 Say "I know you do." What does that do though? Isn't it kind of avoiding?
option 3 This is what I was thinking of doing before I read TH's post. I thought of writing a "Fine, I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me" email. But it's saying a lot more than his email calls for. And really I do want to be married to him so I don't want to say things that aren't entirely true - when I'm not in that place (yet?).
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you