Help!, back again after 4 years!!!!!

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So what do you guys suggest, do I ask her to leave or ask her to work on the M??

If I ask her to work on us, is this not pursuing in a way?

I understand what you are saying about being in limbo, but do I really want to push her away, it's ok to let go, but am I not forcing the issue here a little??