On two ends of the world..

[TimeHeals]

I asked about a possible 'third party' because it changes up the sequence of recommendations.

For an EA/PA:

1. Expose the affair to those likely to favor the marriage.
2. Drop the rope.

For other cases, procede to #2.

So drop the rope I guess.

E.G. "I know you do" response, and then go dim/dark.

He will try to get you to do the work for him perhaps. We'll have to see how it goes.