There is no way for you to know what she will do. If there was then you wouldn't be posting on any of these boards right now. One of the lessons that you must learn is to go through this crisis with NO EXPECTATIONS.
Busted. Agreed. I'll be very honest. And I'll take my lumber. The reason this line is there is because I am preparing for the worst. I honestly do know that my W is capable of more than she is showing right now. I believe in her more than most. I see a greater depth to her than her own mother. I see potential SHE doesn't even see. But I don't want to count on it. I don't want to be tethered to that hope. I don't want to expect that outcome either. So I talk the "prepare for the worst and be pleasantly surprised if it doesn't come to pass"
Originally Posted By: LanceSijan
If there was then you wouldn't be posting on any of these boards right now.