I don't know if telling him this would help. Based on previous experiences, if his rage has subsided then yes, but if he's still blinded by it then no. Any thoughts on what to do now about this whole mess?
Wit and Charm can work wonders And when you are in a happy place, it gets easier. Right now, and I am not saying it's your fault, you are worried about him--almost compulsively--and it takes you out of the moment.
Appeal to his masculine side? His ego? "Gee your kind of sexy when you mow the lawn" or something similiar?
Tell us about your H. What does he like? What lights him up?
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And when you are in a happy place, it gets easier. Right now, and I am not saying it's your fault, you are worried about him--almost compulsively--and it takes you out of the moment.
