A little perspective needed please!

[gr8 day 2B alive]

buffet,

I don't specificly know you sitch either but I may be on the same course as you.

I had mediation this past weekend and I think the fact that legal and financial pressures are scaring my W.

I spoke to our one mtual friend Saturday night. When she was speaking to my W she told her that I had a girl friend.

My W started to tear up and said the her "I only needed some time"

That was cool with me but needing time and sleeping around don't jive with me.

My W is truely unhappy with herself and your's is too.

I believe they are now realizing the grass is not greener on the others side and know the lost their family.

My W wants to talk to me about things today.

I have the eerie feeling that she is going to plea her case to work on things.

I'm not sure what I want. But I know I am leading this R where I Want it to go.

I know one thing I will tell her is"
"You are unhappy and it shows everytime I see you, how can someone else be happy around you when you're not happy with who you are"

It's unattractive.

The roles have reversed. The LBS works hard on themselves, improves their lives and become attractive again.
The WAS continues their ways and the LBS finally realize they deserve better.

IMO. If you want the R with W you need to make her do the work to show you. You have done the work the past X amount of time and the WAS needs to catch up to you.

Whatever you decide you will be just fine.

May you get what you desire. Good luck, gr8

PS keep us up dated here.