GAG, The person who sent that to you is obviously a coward. There is much written that the person that gets involved with a MLC'r has issues of their own that they can not deal with. The OP in my sitch is also a coward. BIL has said it. W has admitted it. Does not change the fog. You must be a threat to this coward for them to go to this trouble like Mila suggested. Whatever you are saying/doing to get this type of package in the mail, suggests to me you are doing something right.