FM- bravo! I bet you also are more relaxed and chatty with your stbxh because you are detached!!!
I hope M is patient and understanding and doesn't push you too much.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004