I definitely understand feeling alone...I feel that way a lot. And my ex has told me many times that when he starts talking to me he just gets so angry that he can't talk to me without going off...
You have a b.s. detector, keep using it. Don't let D try and dump all of his crap back on you. Easier said than done sometimes, but necessary.
You have been the voice of reason for a lot of us here on the boards. I only wish I could give back to you as well as you have given to me...
