I read a book, "I Do Again." The wife blew up a marriage because of an OM. Then two years later she realized that it was all a mistake and she wanted to go back.
The ex- made her wait five years before they got back together. He didn't believe the changes and then he thought it was just because of the kids. It took him forever to believe she truly loved him.
If you decide to go down the reconcile path go very slow and make her work hard to win you back.
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