I had my anniversary on Friday and I chose to not mention it at all. And I didn't hear a peep from H either. The general rule of thumb is to not discuss the R and I think mentioning the anniversary is a BIG R reminder. So I wouldn't mention it IMHO.
Be strong IB. I know the day will be rough but you'll get through it and will be stronger because of it. ((IB))
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11