From what I can tell... "Piecing starts" when the "problem" is exposed and you work on your marriage both in yourself and with your spouse... How long does piecing last? I truly believe it last as long as you are married. I think part of the problem with a marriage that got all of us here in the first place was taking marriage for granted. It will always be a "work in progress" from now on. I learn something new all of the time both with my wife and with me. It's ok to make mistakes as long as you learn by them. Insanity is trying the same thing over and over and expecting a different result...
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
