I was told by the psychologist who did our forensic analysis you tell the children the bare minimum. In this case that's exactly what you did. I wouldn't tell her anything else until you see someone who is trained in that area.
I think what you told her is enough for her right now. You're taking the car trip, daddy's staying there to work.
Now focus on getting all your ducks in a row.
Suggestion - get a small digital tape recorder and record your conversations with H. In person, on phone, etc... Keep text messages that are pertinent.
Just because he feels the way he did last night doesn't mean he's going to stick to that position.
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