Had a great time in Nashville with kids. My middle D was particularly insightful about a few things. We were talking about the whole situation and she said "You know mom - in his unhappiness Dad has turned away from the family instead of toward the family." She said "He is unhappy about how things are with you - but he has also made it clear through his actions and words that he is unhappy with how we kids have turned out." She said - "we've all gone through things at different points over the last few years and we've always turned inward - toward the family to get through - and we have. But Dad over the past while - hasn't"

Right now I am trying to get ready for the week - it's been a difficult few days. With Tuesday looming (25th anniversary) - I'm looking for some input as to whether or not I should acknowledge the day with H or not. Any advice?


M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
A Day at a Time