A little perspective needed please!

[Buffet]

well thanks, actually thanks more than you know. The last 2 responses are very well timed. It seems like when you are in the middle of the storm that you cannot get any perspective on the path to take out of the storm sometimes.

Getting some validation that I am doing the right thing feels good. It is amazing the hold/control that she has had over me for so long that I would question if it is right to have these "demands" of her!!

More and more I have felt a shift of anger/sad/hurt/etc about me and her to those same feelings for S2 who does not deserve this and is the real victim here........