Forever21 thanks for taking the time to help me. I understand I don't have to tell everyone everything. It's just sometimes they innocently ask how H is, or something like that. I will try to keep it light if I decide to answer the question.
Thank you also Robx. My first H left me for another woman. I acknowledge that there were obviously problems in my first marriage for H to decide to do that, but in the end he decided. This time around my current H has decided he doesn't want to work on the relationship. The problems we have are that we didn't communicate well enough. I thought in my first M we communicated pretty well. In my first M my XH did not give me any answers when I asked for them. I thought I had it worked out and worked on those parts of me but perhaps not hard enough, or perhaps I didn't have it worked out like I thought. I am reading one of Phil McGraw's books on Self to see if that helps me at all. I believe it will help me see what I want out of life and that can't be a bad thing.
Last edited by oncemore; 09/19/1011:09 PM.
Me: 40 H: 39 no kids together 8 years married 6 years bomb: 31 Aug 10
