Sorry you're feeling down Sol, it happens. It's OK to have these thoughts but you have to allow yourself only a limited time to acknowledge them and then move on. I know it's all very difficult and it sucks that so many of us have to go through this. Unfortunately we HAVE to go through this hurt and grieving to get to a better place and you're getting closer to that place.

Have you found any relevant books or perhaps a C to help with the process? ADs can help make this difficult process from turning into a monumental process.

Besides attending the wedding ceremonies what else are you doing to stay busy and keep your mind off of these thoughts.

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Lab partner and I grabbed a bite to eat between class and lab and he was saying he wanted to know more about me, yada yada. I think he has a little crush. Which is flattering but so not where I'm at. He even texted me later saying "I bet you look beautiful at the wedding" and said he really enjoyed spending time with me.


Ya think? grin

Hey at least you're getting attention from the opposite sex...that's gotta count for something.

Last edited by ImprovedRomeo; 09/19/10 09:53 PM.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again