Thanks but I still have far to go... I think the biggest "enemy" of anyone on this board is ourselves. Nobody controls our emotions and feelings but ourselves unless WE let them.
Last night is a good example... I decided to try to initiate some intimacy...And was rejected... (Nicely I might add) but still rejected. Now in the past I would have been hurt, worried that something was up, disappointed... and If I had felt any of those last night it would have been caused by ME allowing me to feel that way not wife’s rejection... instead... last night I just rolled over and thought to myself... Guess I will try again tomorrow...said Good night and I love ya to my wife and went to sleep.
Last edited by Dr LOve; 09/19/1006:53 PM.
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