(((Bobbi Jo)))

@CG>>>"WAS don't continue to engage with the LBS three years later like our H's do for no reason. Sadly though they choose the same approach and wind up further back than they started."

Reading your other thread about what was said by Dan & when, it does appear that he uses what he can to keep engaging you. What better way than thru the kids, OW, etc.

It's only since I have gone to somewhat extreme measures to avoid contact with H that I have regained balance & some peace in my life.

It's Dan that doesn't seem to want to let go. Maybe he knows that he will probably regret losing you & wants to keep you connected in the only (unhealthy) way he knows how.


@CG>>"You are lovable - we all know that. You are fun, kind, dedicated and a ball of sunshine with the prettiest face on Facebook!

What is inspiring about you is how you ALWAYS have the ability to pick yourself up after a hard stretch with Dan or work or your family. You find strength and share strength with us."


This is true...ignore Dan's crazy evaluation, it's only used to keep control.

Take Care,

Sunny


Date of separation 4/23/07

DB under Warm&Sunny 4/07

married 9 yrs

sons 6yr & 17yr