On two ends of the world..

[TimeHeals]

would like him to know that I don't GAL "in spite of him" but that I'm just doing it for myself.

Ehhh, doing the GAL stuff for yourself is the right motivation. If he has questions about it, he'll ask. I wish he would ask Give him a little time to miss you, and shift your focus to having fun in Paris.

You can always come back to this question when you get back.

You could always tell him that you missed him when you get back

[KellBell0820]

Royale with Cheese. LOL. Your trip and TH's mention of McDonald's got me thinking of 'Pulp Fiction.'

Have fun in Paris! I love Pulp Fiction, lol.

[soleil]

Hey, Ris. You could post on your WALL that you are off to Paris to eat a Royale with Cheese.

That will definitely catch his attention. LOL.

Kell, Sam. Jackson is my favorite character in that movie! Especially when he's got the gun and is quoting from Ezekiel.

[KellBell0820]

LOL! I agree with soleil, that would get his attention. I love Sam Jackson. I also like Travolta when he shoots Marvin and he was just so . . . aww man, I shot Marvin in the face.

[ris]

Give him a little time to miss you, and shift your focus to having fun in Paris.

You can always come back to this question when you get back.

You could always tell him that you missed him when you get back

Thank you TH this is just what I needed to hear

Hey, Ris. You could post on your WALL that you are off to Paris to eat a Royale with Cheese.

That will definitely catch his attention. LOL.

I don't really want to cause H and me have an insider joke about a Royale with cheese... I think that could seem pursuing! :P

[soleil]

No, no. You wouldn't be posting this ON his wall, but on your own page in that place that says "What's on your mind today?"

Oh and btw, you totally should go and have a Royale with Cheese & come back with the full report!

[ris]

Hello from Paris!

Now on to more grave matters. I decided to check my email and FB and found that H "unmarried" me on FB, deleted pictures of us together and untagged himself from mine and just deleted half of his profile and his status is talking about "it's over". WTF??

Please someone give me clarity in this because I think I'm married to a 16 year old who decided to break up with me through freakin FB.

Now I'm off to try to enjoy the rest of my weekend and I'll be back this evening.

[TimeHeals]

Now on to more grave matters. I decided to check my email and FB and found that H "unmarried" me on FB, deleted pictures of us together and untagged himself from mine and just deleted half of his profile and his status is talking about "it's over". WTF??

What?

Is there something your forgot to tell us?

[KellBell0820]

Wow Ris, is it possible he's trying to get a reaction from you? Or that he's upset that you haven't been intiating conversation? I'd say talk to him and see what's up, listen and then tell him why you haven't been talking, but I'm no expert or anything.

[eeyore_no_more]

Just try to ignore it for now. Have fun!

He's most likely trying to get a reaction from you, so he can complain about how controlling you are. Don't take the bait.

My W did the same passive-aggressive stuff with me after one of our blowouts. Unfriended me, deleted all my pictures and posts, then changed removed her marital status. For what it's worth, and for all of her bluster, she's still here.

Also, in another FWIW, back when things were good in my M, whenever I had to go out of town on business, my W would pick a fight with me right before I left. It always used to irritate me, until she confessed one night that she did it so she would be too mad to miss me when I was gone.

I didn't see in the thread; does he know about the trip? He may be worried that you are going to visit the "City of Love" without him. Let him sweat for a while...