Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

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And any advice on what to tell the 3.5 year old would be good. She knows we are going on the 'long car ride' again and doesn't want to go. I said we might look at a new house for me, her sister, and the dog to live near her grandparents and her friends and that daddy would stay here so he could go to work. She wants to stay with him. Then she said she didn't like daddy.

I feel like I'm totally flying blind here. How do I know what to tell her when I don't even know how this will end myself?