It will always be something when it comes to certain WAS's... cows, lupus, being broke and whatever else they can conjure up in their minds. And people like Dan and D (my H) are the WAS that are least done. WAS don't continue to engage with the LBS three years later like our H's do for no reason. Sadly though they choose the same approach and wind up further back than they started. D has been doing the same thing to me for the past few weeks. It's abusive and cruel. People who are abusive and cruel are lost and both of our H's are very, very lost. Their inability to find their way to a place of peace and self understanding often makes us the target. We can remove ourselves as much as possible. We do our best.
You though, Bobbi Jo, have a generous quality about you that radiates in each thing you do. And the idea of hope that you have (had) cements how generous in spirit you are.
You are lovable - we all know that. You are fun, kind, dedicated and a ball of sunshine with the prettiest face on Facebook!
What is inspiring about you is how you ALWAYS have the ability to pick yourself up after a hard stretch with Dan or work or your family. You find strength and share strength with us.
