No ILY? stop holding on to the expectation. You post as if you want her to keep pulling you in. For the love of pete, stop doing this to yourself, it is, trust me the hardest thing you will do, but let the f%ck go already. Everyone here even Lotus, who has been your backing with your motives, now says you are in a damaging hurtful relationship with W. FOCUS on your S nothing else. When you post you write as if now your S, is on the back burner, wrong approach, wrong way to look at this. You have argued my input in the past, but look at your posts, really look at them and look at the responses. You dont listen, you do what you want, and reply to the input that serves your purpose, obsessing about your W and letting her work you like a puppet.
Sorry to be so harsh, but as you can probably look over the last few pages you are losing support here. I still respond because I have a manipulating and game playing W, so I can relate, I just feel I am a lot further along in this than you, and you keep running back to the sidelines for comfort.
