CW - Thank you - I'm noticing that H is now able to see some of the damage he's done....not that it makes any difference at this stage....he is still "in love" with OW...
Cyrena - I'm sorry I just realized that I didn't thank you or reply to your recent post. Your post is very insightful, thank you so much.
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...you just keep getting smashed up against their Fog. I've seen it described as a sort of self-brainwashing, where they tell themselves enough rationalizations about their actions and thoughts, that they actually come to believe it. For a second here or there you might be able to penetrate the fog--but their minds will hastily pull back their protective coating of brainwashed "truths" until they are finally able to start dealing with reality.
This is very descriptive of how it is....
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M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO