At least you know what to expect, I mean you have been through the highs and lows with H so you know how he acts in that case. It is good that he is starting to make better choices and not going out to get drunk or not going to fight. Those are positive points. Slowly he will learn to control his anger more or see that the anger is to help him come out of the depressive state because the anger gives him the hormones needed to be "up" so he can stop that behavior.
For your sake, I hope he at least says sorry, but good job sticking with your plans. You can't just not doing anything ever and make last minute plans with other people.
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