...I just don't get it...Part of me thinks I should listen and empathize and part of me says not to until she decides she wants to stop the D and save the M. I don't know, do I try to make her miss it by staying dim or do I try to be the one she can't resist by being there for her...
Which one do you think has a better chance of drawing her back...Try that first....If that doesn't work, try the other....HINT:DO NOT FEAR HER ANGER. Do not fear her. Do not let fear control you.
Women want to be understood...understand her...do this by LISTENING....Treat her like a cat....Be aware of when you should end.. be the first to leave....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712