Kalni needs to teach me how she learned to not let her H 'touch' her when she was still protecting her heart...
All I can do is cry, and cry.
I was texting w/Dan's cattle friend Doug this morning. Actually considering investing in his cows. The way it would work is I would buy a cow and he would keep it, feed it, breed it, etc. Then every time a baby is born and sold I get a cut of the profit. Once the cow is at the end of the road, I get a cut of its market price, too.
Well Dan found out and got super pissed. Wanted to know wtf since I 'never supported him' on his cows. Should have just ignored him entirely...
Instead I replied back that I would have preferred investing in his cows (STUPID ME) since they were right here, but did not think he would want that.
He went off on me, saying he already travels 100 days a year to give me $$, why would he want to have to take care of cows for me, too, what was I trying to do. I was honest and said I was just trying to be supportive but absolutely never mind. He totally took it the wrong way.
Well then he told me to go to hell, and that his cattle friend could go to hell, too.
I did not reply. Then two hours later he texts that he is taking kids to Pizza Machine? And then texted that I could go buy friend's cows.
Well an hour after that, just now, he called my house. I answered bc usually it is the kids calling on his phone. I answer and he starts chewing me out asking why I did not tell him there was a birthday party tomorrow for some cousins, if I wanted kids during his day I needed to let him know, etc etc.
I replied that he has known about the party since Wednesday bc the kids told him and he told me that day that he wanted to know the plan. So I had told him on Weds that if they were coming they should come by three. So I said "Not sure why you are complaining that I didn't tell you ahead of time when you have already known for three days, clearly you just want to be angry at me."
So then he goes into how I could possibly think he wanted me to invest in him, that my little "stunt" of talking to his cattle friend just about pushed him over the edge, etc etc.
Then he said that was the whole point of his text two weeks ago telling me about his "Perfect Morning"--that he could have had that if he had been able to move to the the farm when he wanted to. (So know I know what that was all about.)
I got sucked in at that point. I said, you have decided that I was not supportive of you, no amount of my actions will change your mind. Clearly I would not have offered to invest in your cattle at this point if I didn't support you. He said it is sure nice you have money to invest now because I am broke. I said well if you hadn't divided our family up you would not be broke...
