Talking about responding? I thought I was supposed to bust trhe affair, then let her go. Still trying to let go completely, but I don't show her that I haven't. Have the kids today, but still struggling in my mind.
I don't think there is a 3rd party anymore except for W's stupid BF the gossip whore. They both went to W's hometown tonight for a bi-annual Cheese Days celebration. W says she doesn't jknow if she is conming to the kids soccer games tomorrow or not. Is playing it by ear. Generally at these types of events she gets really drunk and is worthless the next day. I'm not expecting to see her.
I'm organizing my new garage today, so while she is gone, I divided up our tools and took a tool chest back home and left it in the garage for her. She had been complaining that she didn't have any tools.
I looked around while I was there and she has re-painted the master bedroom. All her clothes that don't hang are laid in piles on the floor around the perimeter of the room.
This is all very sad. Sorry, just feeling down today.