Didn't intend to hijack your thread. I really felt some similaries to your sitch regarding the kids and the forced contact with the W. I know we all make our own path, but I appreciate learning from those who've taken a similar journey.
To answer your question briefly before going back to my thread, I've got that same old limbo feeling. Maybe have a little less anger, maybe not.
M / W: 43 D8 S6 M 10 years / T 13 years W admitted EA/PA: 10.6.09 Separated in same house 10.6.09 W moved out 2.27.10