Mish, wording that way does sound like you would be selfish but that doenst mean selfish is wrong. So, lets say, his dad finds someone else he loves and moves out in a year, would that be fair for Marc?
But, on the other hand his asnwer isnt one that necessarily means he doenst love you. In fact if you have courage and strength it gives you room to do all in your power to change it. He loves you but you feel isnt in love with you. So, where does that leave you? Think about it. You can stay this way or try to build on it. It's like, DAY 1 but with a much better "equipped" and wiser mishka. Hugs K